Frogs
We often see “the odd dating couple”, also known as the “frog hookups”. These are the gorgeous supermodel looking women you find walking through the mall holding hands with someone so ordinary his name should be Joe Schmo (no offense Joe). Everyone around the couple starts to stare with wonderment in their eyes and “Why is she dating him?” on their lips.
So what lesson can the ordinary Joe’s of the world take from observing these odd couples? Simply put, any ordinary Joe has a great chance of dating a supermodel looking woman. It isn’t just a numbers game though. You first have to learn why hot women can fall for common guys and you have to apply what you know. This article will help you get started toward fulfilling your dating fantasies.
First, it is important to realize that gorgeous women are not blind, and you didn’t get an overnight promotion raising your looks from a +5 to a +10. So, if you are going to win a beauty for yourself you are going to have to work for it. Fortunately, everything you will need can be learned. And just like a blind person who overcompensates for his lack of sight by drastically improved hearing, you will have to overcompensate the GQ look with a few learned characteristics.
Humor Her
Virtually all women are attracted to a guy who can make them laugh. Countless surveys have shown that the number one desired characteristic in the opposite sex is a sense of humor. Fortunately, you don’t have to qualify as a stand-up comedian to score high in the laughter department. You simply need to realize that being funny is a learned behavior – one that you can learn. Visit your local library or search online for books, articles, e-books, and other guides to help you learn the necessary skills for bonding with people through laughter. Learning to always be fun and spontaneous when dating will go a long way for you.
Honesty Is The Best Dating Policy
Next, you may need to learn to be more honest with women. If you want to learn how to attract and keep a supermodel woman you must become someone worthy of her trust. Always be faithful and honest with her. There are many paths including: religion, yoga, and meditation, which all speak about the virtues of being honest with yourself and with others. The path to enlightenment is also a path to becoming a better you. It is a journey well worth the effort.
Pay Attention To How You Dress
You need to look your very best when dating. Even if you are not Tom Cruise you can certainly work on having a neat, clean, attractive appearance. Clothes don’t make the man but they certainly can make you look more attractive. If you need help with your wardrobe, ask a friend who is a sharp dresser if he will offer you a few tips. Chances are your friend will be happy to go clothes shopping with you.
Win With Confidence
Women are attracted to confident men. This is not about being boastful or self-centered. Confidence comes from taking positive action but, before you take action, you need to know enough about the subject in order to be able to handle it with confidence. Remember, you don’t have to be a know-it-all yourself. Just learning who to contact for the needed information or service can be enough to enable you to approach any problem with complete self-confidence. Always be willing to step forward with your confident solutions to satisfy her needs and you will win and keep her heart. Build your dating confidence by participating in free dating chat forums.
Try Reverse Psychology
Sometimes being contrary or using reverse psychology works. This is done by carefully avoiding all compliments about her appearance. Instead, concentrate on getting to know her mind. Learn how she thinks and processes information. Treat her like she is nothing special by teasing her in a way that makes her think you see her as not quite up to your usual standards of beauty. If she tells you she was a high school cheerleader, reply that you are happy she attended a high school that provides equal opportunities for everyone. Try running hot and cold with her where you show a friendly interest followed by a period of being aloof. Don’t push for or even hint that you have any interest in intimacy.
Know When To Move On Or Stay Put
Keep an eye out for any unusual signals she may send that could signal you to move on instead. Some gorgeous women will try dating unattractive men so that they can always be the center of attention. Usually, these are not worth your time. Remember also that some women settle for less than they deserve after getting dumped. They intentionally choose someone further down the attraction ladder to avoid being hurt again. These can make for compassionate long-term relationships.
About This Dating Advice Author
Sarah Connor is the publisher of the 100% totally free online dating site Free Date Dot Net. She holds a B.S. Degree from the University of Maryland. She is widely consulted for her dating advise expertise. She is an advocate in favor of the dating safety laws which have been published by several states.
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Yes, the obvious answer is he has money or power and she has looks. That is the “norm”. If you have enough money – or diamond mines for example – you can get multiple tall, blond, super-model types fawning all over you at the same time even if you look like Jabba the Hut.
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I think at the “Honesty Is The Best Dating Policy” is the most important of them all. Because if you start out on a lie eventually it will catch up with you.
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yaaaa,it is very true,without honesty,you cannot get too with your dating
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Women love “real” men, no doubt about it. If he’s honest, confident, teases her in a fun and friendly manner that makes her feel special without being fawned over, then you got yourself a keeper.
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Honesty is the key
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Honesty is so important. I absolutely despise a liar. ~Cris
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Very interesting stuff. I appreciate finding this article here. Thank you Sarah.
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You are very welcome Dr. Christopher! And thanks for making me more aware of Tony the Tiger
Looks aren’t everything…
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I can just agree that honesty is extremely important in any relationships. If anyone will start to lie, then in long term there will not be anything good in such type of relationships. Only case how such people could be together if they both are lie, but what would be sense of such type of dating …
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Hello Sarah,
This is a very interesting topic and post. I like the tips mentioned. However, when dating a woman, I’d rather be myself. Thanks for sharing.
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Win with confidence and Honesty is the best policy. I think this says it all. Just be yourself! You can impress a girl by being just the way you are. It is better to be accepted with what you are than what you are not. Be confident enough… and keep in mind this advices. Great article by the way!
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“Know When to Move on Or Stay Put”.
I couldn’t have said it better myself. Never let anyone use you to make themselves look better or feel better. Move on if that is the case.
Well said.
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I think none of us can say that why she or he is in love.
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Love the article! There’s nothing more attractive than a man with a sense of humor and confidence!! ~Cris
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I agree with what you’ve written Sarah, especially about the honesty, great article! I would also add to the ideas about confidence, that deliberately focusing on the BEST qualities about the person you are with, as well as about yourself, will go a long way toward building good feelings and a loving connection.
Have you ever noticed how fun it is to talk to someone who seems like they are genuinely enjoying you, your company, and your ideas? Anyone can be THAT person by looking for the qualities that you enjoy and appreciate about the people you are interacting with, and focusing on those – then you automatically bring out the best in them (and YOU!)
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grrrr…. why she is dating him ?? :/
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Honesty and Trust is the foundation of relationship..without it,it didn’t last. Very helpful post.
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I remember what my gay friends always say when this question is brought up, “if he is not handsome then he must be rich”, it’s kinda cruel to say but sometimes it’s true.
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It pays to be the real you. Don’t forget to collect as many words of encouragements as you can from friends for confidence boost..
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I like you post post…i just wanna add that guys should be more sensitive and not just jump in..
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When you exude confidence and feel great about yourself,
people (and most importantly females) will want to be around you. Even those who question your relationship will probably want to hang out with you too..
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Confidence is a key to a successful date and not cockiness pretending you know everything..To guys out there please listen to what she is not saying…
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Hahaha! I absolutely agree with you that women are most attracted to men that who always made us laugh A guy that have a sense of humor that everytime you will go outside you are always happy inspite of all bad things happen and the good things is that you are happy with him.
I have been to speed dating events a couple of times. It is more like regular dating, except that one gets to meet many people at once. Have a good sense of humor, acting confident (less desperate) and dressing well does help.
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Great article! Men really need to understand that they can get women – any women. They are so much luckier when it comes to attracting the opposite sex because women are not in it for the looks, they can be won over by the whole package – no matter what the guy looks like.
It’s absolutely true and if more guys knew that this there would be a lot more guys walking around with hot girls on their arms.
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