Discover the secrets to having the most romantic dates ever

Ngah Benoit

Ngah Benoit

Founder and C.E.O at CleBea Technology
As a computer Engineering student, I Founded Love Klinic, a love and relationship platform. And being very determined to help others redefine love and grow better relationships, I now blog at Love Klinic Blog where I share what I know with others.
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romantic date secrets

No matter how creative you can be, coming up with the best romantic date ideas is usually a stressful and time consuming task. Worst of all when you’ve been in a relationship for quite a long time and are probably running out of ideas. When it comes to romantic dates, planning is King, and designing a good plan should be the first thing to do if you want to have an enjoyable and romantic date. Your plan should include; choosing the venue, what to wear, and how to behave. It’s usually difficult to come up with these romantic date ideas, so I’m going to help you design a killer romantic date plan that’s going to make you have the date you’ve always dream of.

Choosing the venue

Sometimes with women it’s not WHERE you take them but how romantic and enjoyable the date turns out to be. Despite this, making the right choice on where to go is something very important to do. When making a choice, avoid places you frequent very regularly as you are likely to run into lots of people you know, who will have to say hi now and then. Also, don’t go somewhere too private cause your date might feel uncomfortable.
If you have little information on the kind of places they will love to go to, there’s no problem in asking the other person for their opinion as to where you should go, after all the goal is to make them as comfortable as possible. Remember that you want your date to be special, so instead of going to a fancy restaurant which they may not like, get their opinion and make your date special.
If you prefer choosing the venue, then you have to do your homework properly. This involves finding out what the other person likes and dislikes, and use it as a guide to choice a venue they will enjoy. I’ve come up wit a few romantic venues which you may consider when making a choice on the venue.

  • The Beach: You can watch the waves together at a beach. Play together and get to know each other more.
  • Take a walk at a park: Talking while walking is romantic cause it makes the conversation more friendly rather being an interview.
  • Have dinner together: Having dinner together is cool since you will have so much time to talk and understand each other better.
  • Watch a movie: You can have a wonderful date watching a romantic movie together. And unless you really know the kind of movies your date love, don’t take her to watch a horror movie.

There are other romantic places you may consider going to depending on how you want your date to be.

MUST READ: The right person to go on a date with.

What to put on

When it comes to dressing, dress to impress. Before picking an outfit, you need to bear in mind what kind of date you’re going on, as well as external factors such as the weather, location and time of day. You have to look good in order to make a go. Avoid putting on so much make up, and try as much as possible to be simple, no matter how expensive the things you are putting on are. One very important way to complete your outfit is to always put on a genuine and approving smile. This creates a sign of friendship and makes your date feel more comfortable.

How to behave

Your behavior during a date, especially the first date, has a great part to play in the future of your relationship. The first thing to do is to arrive on time and give your date a warm welcome. In the course of the date, you can talk about the things you like and learn what your date enjoys doing. Don’t turn your conversation into an interview by asking so many question. Remember that your date dressed to impressed you so it wouldn’t be fair to separate without you complimenting their appearance. This is something you should not forget doing. Make your date feel comfortable with your actions and words, and try to be as soft as much as you can.


I will like to know which romantic dates you’ve gone to and also what made your date so special. Please use the comment box to have your say.


  1. Twitter:
    At some restaurant is one of the best spot of the date i think
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  2. Twitter:
    The best spot of the date is sitting on the bench at side of river, while watching sunset and a cup of cola (ohh..edit.. cup of tea)
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  3. Twitter:
    Candle light dinner is awesome thing as a date and slow music is playing beside there.
    That is awesome expeience :)
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  4. Twitter:
    Hi, I think romantic place and can repair the relationship is when we watch a romantic movie in theaters.
    The darkness of the room, while providing the opportunity to hold her hand and whispered “I love you”. after the film is completed will appear different feelings and make us more comfortable with each other :)

  5. Twitter:
    I definitely agree that the beach is one of the best venues to go to spend quality time with your loved one. Having said so, I think that Charleston SC real estate beaches are good places to visit because of their romantic and laid back ambience. A romantic sunset dinner on the veranda overlooking the ocean is a romantic moment you and your partner would really love.
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  6. Haha, amazing article. Will let you guys know if it helps me! Kudos!

  7. Twitter:
    You’ve explored so many things about dating here ngah, Had you wrote this article before my first date, I am sure I would have done better to impress her but unfortunately I couldn’t really make the most out of it. It was my plan to take her to the restaurant which was a complete failure. anyways nice write up buddy.
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    • Twitter:
      Thanks so much Alan. I’m blog to help others grow better relationships with their partners. I’m sorry your first date did not turn out the way you expected but to tell you the truth, there are biggest surprises and successes ahead. You just need to understand yourself and learn some new tips and you’re relationship will surely be the best. I blog on this stuff, so you should come visit my blog and learn more.
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  8. Twitter:
    I find it quite funny that the blog post is written by a man and all the comments are from men. You guys all seem to be getting your ideas of cheesy romance from hollywood.
    Just simple things like a nice gesture or a well timed/placed compliment – you don’t have to go over the top with beach side candlelit dinners to be romantic. The moment you start to do it like the movies just means you have run out of ideas.
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    • Twitter:
      Adam, I understand what you mean and truly you don’t have to do it as in the movies. The first thing I will like you the understand is that you have to be yourself and remain simple. If you understand yourself and your date then no matter where you go to, be it a restaurant or park, you are going to have a very successful date. Thanks for your opinion.
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  9. Twitter:
    aahhaa,, looks like I will be dating someone soon again. Thanks for your wonderful article.
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  10. Twitter:
    I agree that behavior is important on the date. I think what you meant by soft is being a gentleman, and I always prefer gentlemen on a romantic date. I also prefer men who take control of the date and ‘are on top of things’ as the date goes along. It is very romantic for a man to plan out a date and lead it without input from a woman. As you said, he should do his research as to what she likes though.
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    • Twitter:
      You are correct Bellaisa, Being a gentleman is very important for the success of every date. One thing we really need to know for sure is that in everything we do, we have to do our home work prior to the task and going on a date is one of the things that needs a lot of research to make it perfect. Thanks for the comment and hope you do have a great week end.
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  11. Great article. A good guide for who want to make romantic date rather than understanding the mistakes had done before.

  12. Twitter:
    Wherever you go, whatever you wear, as a thumb rule just be yourself.
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  13. Twitter:
    Hey Ngah,
    Nice tips and Thanks for sharing this tips with us. Yes, choosing the venue and dressing is very important factor in romantic dates and help in impress the girl easily. This post really gonna help all the boys for making their relations easily with girls.
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  14. Twitter:
    Spending Time together by holding hands for long walk in the Beach is the awesome feeling and also Having Dinner with lighty restaurant are thr best place to have a happy moments with our Loved Ones!!

  15. Twitter:
    I try to keep the first few dates simple with things such as you suggested like going to the beach or going to a coffee shop and just talking. I think the key is to get to know your date to see if you have chemistry and then after you have gone on a few dates then you can bust out the more romantic dates such as going on a weekend getaway and such.
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