Have you been separated from the woman that you love and wish that you could get your ex girlfriend back? Couples break apart everyday for an array of reasons and find themselves in a similar state of longing.
Re-attracting a woman who you’ve already established a relationship with, is a more complex challenge then initially attracting her. The process requires patience, perseverance and poise. Unfortunately, moon-walking to Thriller on the dance floor and a few choice words, won’t cut it.
Perhaps you’d been together for a while and you know her better than most people in her life; almost completely. This knowledge may play in your favor but so does mystery and the thrill of uncharted territories. Hence, I suggest that you discard the notion that you know your ex girlfriend in entirety.
- First of all because you can’t ever know someone completely, people grow all the time.
- Second, if you close off the possibility of learning something new about her, failing to continue to be intrigued and enthralled with her, you’re underestimating who you want as a partner.
Boredom not only stems from stale routine but also from a stagnant belief that the last drop of excitement has been squeezed out of circumstance. A lasting relationship won’t stand for close-mindedness.
“The only thing I know is that I know nothing.” ~Socrates
Therefore do not presume that you know all there is to know about your ex girlfriend and how to get her back. With this detrimental attitude, you may as well find someone who is a stranger to you. Fortunately, re-attracting a lover has been done before and by staying within tested, strategic guidelines, you will succeed like many a men before you.
There is a mass of information out there surrounding relationship advisement and much of it is conflicting and confusing. Some would suggest that you “˜follow your heart‘ and “˜be yourself‘, that you don’t need input from people who are marketing their ideas. Others would say that you have to play your actions and reactions by the book. Which ignites an aversion to the concept of using trickery to harness love.
I will simply say this: May all that you do, come from a place of sincerity, don’t compromise who you are. Rather than trickery, do use strategy that is based in human psychology.
The very first step in reuniting with your ex girlfriend is to disappear from her life. Sounds like a textbook paradox, doesn’t it? It is known as the No Contact Rule and requires that you disengage with your ex entirely. This period of space apart is meant to give you time to ride out the panic of losing her and get some peace of mind. When you are in a good place, reproducing confidence, you can formulate a strategic method for success.
The standard length for implementing no contact is thirty days, but instead of focusing on the logistics like a criminal in exile, focus on improving yourself. So that when the time comes for re-initiating contact, you will have a sturdy foundation to build your future relationship upon.
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