Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back

Mike Sullivan
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The Separation

Have you been separated from the woman that you love and wish that you could get your ex girlfriend back? Couples break apart everyday for an array of reasons and find themselves in a similar state of longing.

Re-attracting a woman who you’ve already established a relationship with, is a more complex challenge then initially attracting her. The process requires patience, perseverance and poise. Unfortunately, moon-walking to Thriller on the dance floor and a few choice words, won’t cut it.

Perhaps you’d been together for a while and you know her better than most people in her life; almost completely. This knowledge may play in your favor but so does mystery and the thrill of uncharted territories. Hence, I suggest that you discard the notion that you know your ex girlfriend in entirety.

  • First of all because you can’t ever know someone completely, people grow all the time.
  • Second, if you close off the possibility of learning something new about her, failing to continue to be intrigued and enthralled with her, you’re underestimating who you want as a partner.

Boredom not only stems from stale routine but also from a stagnant belief that the last drop of excitement has been squeezed out of circumstance. A lasting relationship won’t stand for close-mindedness.

“The only thing I know is that I know nothing.” ~Socrates

Therefore do not presume that you know all there is to know about your ex girlfriend and how to get her back. With this detrimental attitude, you may as well find someone who is a stranger to you. Fortunately, re-attracting a lover has been done before and by staying within tested, strategic guidelines, you will succeed like many a men before you.

There is a mass of information out there surrounding relationship advisement and much of it is conflicting and confusing. Some would suggest that you “˜follow your heart‘ and “˜be yourself‘, that you don’t need input from people who are marketing their ideas. Others would say that you have to play your actions and reactions by the book. Which ignites an aversion to the concept of using trickery to harness love.

I will simply say this: May all that you do, come from a place of sincerity, don’t compromise who you are. Rather than trickery, do use strategy that is based in human psychology.

The Re-attraction

The very first step in reuniting with your ex girlfriend is to disappear from her life. Sounds like a textbook paradox, doesn’t it? It is known as the No Contact Rule and requires that you disengage with your ex entirely. This period of space apart is meant to give you time to ride out the panic of losing her and get some peace of mind. When you are in a good place, reproducing confidence, you can formulate a strategic method for success.

The standard length for implementing no contact is thirty days, but instead of focusing on the logistics like a criminal in exile, focus on improving yourself. So that when the time comes for re-initiating contact, you will have a sturdy foundation to build your future relationship upon.

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  1. Hi ,
    I think you have given some great points and explained it very nicely. Two days back one of my friend was asking about same thing , how to get his ex girlfriend back. I have exactly explained what you have mentioned here.

    Thanks alot for sharing the information.

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  2. I think to start talking and gossiping with other girls will be get your EX back :P
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  3. I have another question:

    how to explain to ex-boyfriend that we are not going to be together again?

    Probably, he has read your article :) :)
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  4. Hey Mike,
    Nice post and Thanks for sharing these useful tips with us. These tips really seems helpful and hoping this horrible thing is never happens with me but if whenever I faced these conditions I will surely follow these tips.
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  5. Recently, my ex girlfriend called me and was really upset… She wants to meet me just because to show her current boyfriend (whom she really loves right now) that she is happy with me!!

    She told me the plan and how its gonna be work… Please lemme know whether should I help her?

    She is just using me and nothing else!!
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  6. Breaking up sucks there is no way around it. However I think that before you consider trying to restart the relationship it is very important to sit down and REALLY look at why things went south. I think time is critical too, those first few days or weeks apart take alot of adjusting , its a very crappy time indeed. I guess my point is that you dont want to be in the same spot, feeling the same way in 6 months or a year. The issues that forced you apart need to be addressed and some big, challenging issues will more than likley have to be addressed. However good luck to you all
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  7. Thanks for this really nice post, I liked it really very much!
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  8. I’m probably in the minority here but I dont think that you should bother trying to win back someone when they have already left. They have left for a reason and it was evidently making at least one person unhappy suggesting the compatibility wasnt there and I think that is a true possibility: that two people are just simply incompatible – So why try win your girlfriend or boyfriend back when they were evidently unhappy? Surely its better to try find someone who would be happy with you!
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  9. wow…I am glad that I am reading it at very right time.
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