Texting is a part of picking up and dating women, and if you have a bad text game, then you are going to cost yourself a lot of interest and dates. Texting is a form of communication, and as you probably know women love a man who knows how to communicate with them. Let’s take a look at three huge mistakes that you can make while texting a woman you are interested in.
3 Huge Text Mistakes
The following three mistakes made during a text can send the wrong message to woman or reduce her interest in you. Either way, it’s not good!
1. Not Saying Enough
Sending short text messages to your friends is okay, but if you want to engage a woman and gain her interest, it is not enough. You cannot simply answer with a ‘yes’ or ‘no’ when talking to a woman or she will think that you are not interested in her.
This doesn’t mean that you have to write paragraph after paragraph through your text messages, but it does mean you have to be clear on what you are saying.
For example, if a woman asks you if you want to get together, you could say ‘Yes’, or you could say ‘That sounds good to me. Looking forward to it.’ One sounds like you could really care less, and one sounds like you care a lot.
Sending the longer text will make her feel good and excited to see you.
2. Sending Unclear Texts
Always make sure that your text messages are clear. If you think that there could be any confusion inside of the text, change it so that she understands exactly what you are trying to say.
For example, if she asks you to call her later, and you think you are going to be busy, you could say, “I suppose I could do that”. That message tells her you are not sure if you are really interested in calling her later. But, if you were to say something like “I would like to call you. I have to see how much extra time I have though,” you are making it clearer that you want to call but may not have time.
Always make sure that she can’t read something negative or untrue into the text before sending it. This will save you a lot of heartache and explaining in the future!
3. Not Engaging Her Enough
There is something that I call the dead-end text. It is where you text her a message that doesn’t really require a response. And, if it does, the response can only be given with one or two words.
For example, “It is nice outside today!” is a dead-end text. She can only say ‘yes’ or ‘no’ in response, and it doesn’t really lead to a conversation.
On the other hand, “Are you enjoying the weather today?” is an open-ended text. It gives her the chance to tell you about her day and can start up a pretty decent conversation.
Texting Is Important, So Make Sure You Do It Right!
If you are not hearing back from women through your text messages, then there is a good chance you are making one of the above 3 mistakes. If you want to improve your text game with women, always make sure to send detailed, clear, and engaging texts. You will notice a difference instantly.