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- The 25 Habits of Empowered Women - February 8, 2013
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How can you identify an empowered woman? Empowered women have certain characteristics and qualities that set them apart from other women. I’ve had the opportunity to come in contact with some highly successful women lately and they leave clues. I’ve listed 25 things that I think were common among them.
- The empowered woman is never satisfied with the status quo. Mediocrity is like a four letter word.
- The empowered woman knows she has a purpose to fulfill. She thinks, plans and lives in according to her life purpose.
- The empowered woman asks for what she wants. She knows she is deserving of the best life has to offer.
- The empowered woman wants to be more, do more, and have more.
- The empowered woman takes care of herself first. She knows she can’t help others if she’s frumpy, frazzled, and frustrated.
- The empowered woman surround herself with other empowered women. She knows that iron sharpens iron.
- The empowered woman lives a life of clarity. She knows what she wants to accomplish so she keeps her eye on her goals daily.
- The empowered woman takes 100% responsibility for her life. No matter how difficult, she always has a choice, and every decision is hers to make.
- The empowered woman believes anything is possible! She achieves because she believes and takes fast action.
- The empowered woman doesn’t complain when things aren’t working in her life. She simply makes corrections to get back on track.
- The empowered woman commits to never ending self-improvement. Knowledge is the beginning of power!
- The empowered woman focuseson the positive and lets the negative die from a lack of attention.
- The empowered woman constantly challenges her limits. She asks “why?” and “why not?”.
- The empowered woman lives fully without regrets! Everything that happened worked for her good!
- The empowered woman “pays” herself first. When her financial house is in order, she has more to give to help others.
- The empowered woman never says I can’t. Instead she asks, How Can I?
- The empowered woman doesn’t play the blame game. It doesn’t matter what he, she, or they did, she still wins.
- The empowered woman knows how to say no. She prefers to focus on what’s really important.
- The empowered woman never ever gives up on her dreams because she knows all things are possible.
- The empowered woman has a strong relationship with her God, taking time for daily reflection and meditation.
- The empowered woman isn’t afraid of a challenge. She’ll go over, under, around and up and through until she achieves her goals.
- The empowered woman doesn’t help people who aren’t invested in helping themselves. You have to first know that you’re worth the investment.
- The empowered woman doesn’t take on others’ problems. She knows she can’t be a problem solver for everyone.
- The empowered woman will not let others take advantage of her kindness. She will not let her own kindness cause her stress.
- The empowered woman loves herself as she is. Yet she knows there’s always room for personal, healthful, and spiritual growth.
Did you find yourself somewhere on the list? The list may be long but here’s the thing that’s important: you have inside of you the power to be successful. Everyone does. The empowered woman has just figured out how to bring what’s on the inside to outside and therefore lives her life on her terms.
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My girlfriend definitely has these qualities and she is good at what she does. Great observation I must say!
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Hi Rohan, Thanks for the feedback. Sounds like you’re a lucky guy.
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truely lucky ! ! my girlfriend is none close to this !!
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Hi Cheryl,
Nice list of habits here, I think I am going to print this and hand it to my girlfriend. Although, if a woman had every single one of these qualities…ughhh
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Hi Justin, Thanks for your feedback. Yes, every single one is a lot and kind of superwomanish but I think certainly possible to display most of them.
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Hi Cheryl,
Amazing article! The total of these habits comprise a Mission Statement for the passionate achiever.
Great post! BTW, cool business name…
Fred
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Thanks Fred! Passionate achiever…I like that!
Cheryl recently posted..The 25 Habits of an Empowered Woman
List contains many habits but I think it could add some more
A woman who has only a few of these habits must be…
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This is a great list! I can think of so many people who would appreciate a list like this! Your job must be very rewarding Cheryl so way to go =)
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It is very rewarding. Thanks Ella!
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Hey Cheryl,
Hey what about the men???
only joking! Love the list by the way, it reminds of my darling wife so very much!
Keep up the great work
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Hmmmmm. Now you’ve got me thinking about the list for men! I’ve got to get to work on that! Thanks Pols.
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i have those characteristics ..
atleast now i know im one of them.
i do really love to be a female.
woman rocks.
thanks for posting . it educates me.
regards,
reynee
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Thanks Reynee! We do rock!!!!
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hello cheryl,
awesome list i liked the 24th point most. a woman will never let others take advantage of her kindness. thanks for the post
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Thanks Prabhat! Yes, I agree, we can be kind without being a pushover!
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these is a great compilation you have!modern women entrepreneurs will find these very useful!
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Thanks Paul! I love being a modern woman entrepreneur!
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The 7th point says that all ! women are always focused like you cheryl, you are very specific without getting off the topic !
btw nice post
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Thanks Harshi! You picked that up huh? I tend to always be direct and to the point and have to force myself to add fluff when necessary.
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More women need to be brave!
Way too many accept the social norms of society and I don’t mean in a sense of taking it to the extreme.
I say more likely to stand up for themselves and have the qualities in this article in their hearts.
Great article Cheryl.
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Thanks Samuel! You make a good point. We can be brave without being overbearing.
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Excellent list. These are habits all people can benefit from.
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Hi Cheryl, Just reading the list made me feel more empowered! A successful life is certainly an empowered one!!
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Hi Cheryl,
Love you for this write-up!
I almost begin to doubt myself at times and start feeling that I am, perhaps, over-ambitious. This has inspired me. And I am sure that any man who aims to get to the top in his chosen field is going to find this article as relevant!
Cheers, girlie! Ans love ya for this..:)
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Ambika,
Thanks for the feedback. I so glad the post inspired you!
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Hi Cheryl, I agree with all of your points. Like women should not allow other persons to take advantage of their kindness.
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Thanks for the feedback Prakash.
I found myself on number nineteen. I will never give up on my dreams. Even if it takes me a lifetime. I will also invest in others that invest in themselves. It has been my experience that those who invest in themselves appreciate your help more because they are paying the price themselves and understands the sacrifice being made.
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Hey Cheryl,
Nice post and Thanks for sharing this important post with us. I really enjoyed this post while reading and really like all the points you mentioned above and got some good stuff related with empowered women.
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