Are You Commenting Wrong?

Stephanie Suesan Smith, Ph.D.
Stephanie Suesan Smith mainly uses her Ph.D. in clinical psychology to train her dogs. She is also a master gardener, member of the Garden Writer’s Association, and woodworker. Stephanie writes on almost any nonfiction topic and has had some unusual experiences that contribute to that ability. Getting pooped on by a rattlesnake probably ranks tops there, but things just seem to happen to her.
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You can get your own content published on this site as long as you have CommentLuv installed on your site.

Doing so means you get exposure to thousands and thousands of other CommentLuv users and your posts get sent out to the massive subscriber list.

Google loves this site and indexes it multiple times per day and posts always get lots of comments so you can be sure of some excellent exposure.

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commenting community

Can you comment in the wrong manner even if you do not spam? Maybe not wrong, but unproductive. Most people visit blogs here and there and comment one day, then visit off somewhere else another day. This is the drive-by approach to commenting. There is a better way, though. The community way.

Focus your energy on building a community with yourself as the hub and all the other blogs in your niche as the spokes. This way takes longer, but ultimately delivers a much better result. There are five phases to this approach. First, identify the other blogs in your niche. Second, become a familiar face around them. Third, attempt to get as many of them as possible to install the CommentLuv plugin . Fourth, visit these blogs on a frequent basis and leave pertinent comments. Five, reap the benefits of community versus drive-by commenting.

Find your Niche

The first part is as simple as running a Google search on your niche term. For example, my niche is vegetable gardening. That returns a huge number of responses, and the top ones are not blogs but publishers like eHow.com, Suite101.com, and the such. However, I can specify blogs by clicking that term on the side of the Google results page. That is much better. Real blogs I can comment on. Now, specify 50 results per page. At the bottom of the page, you can funnel this search feed into Google Reader or whatever you use to read RSS or Atom files. This is your data source for the next phase of building your community.

Pick the right blogs

Now, each day pick ten blogs to explore. Some are easily discarded as little more than one page billboards. The others, however, have good content and are interesting to read. Do not be concerned if traffic is low. Quality is the key. Visit the quality sites daily. Read their posts. Comment, but only if you can add quality to the conversation. Whatever you do, no advertising! This is crucial. The goal is to become a familiar face that people accept as someone who comments only when they are adding something. If the site is CommentLuv enabled, it is okay to leave a link to a pertinent post, but if they do not have ComLuv, do not leave one in your comment. It makes you sound like you are just interested in traffic, not community.

Work towards advertising

Finally, in the third phase, you can work towards advertising. By now, you should be a familiar face and the blog writer is probably visiting your blog. If they do not have ComLuv installed on their blog, approach them and tell them you think they would be able to deliver better information to your readers when they comment if they had ComLuv installed, so they could pick which of their most recent posts was most germane to the topic. Your readers would then have an easy way to find a relevant post by following the link. This would also increase that blog’s traffic, so everyone wins. Offer to assist them in getting set up with the ComLuv Network and figuring out how to use it.

Why you should have a group of blogs?

By now, you should have a group of blogs that you read every day containing good quality content in your niche. You may have added new ones you discovered during the first few phases. That is fine, and you can add new ones as you come across emerging stars in your niche. When you can add something to the conversation taking place at each blog, leave a comment with a ComLuv link to your most pertinent post on the subject. If you do not have anything useful to add, do not leave a comment that day. Avoid “always” saying something, even when you have something to say. The goal is conversation, not monologue.

Leave targeted links without seeming spammy

A funny thing will start to happen as you make comments, leave links, and receive comments with links. All of the core blogs involved will start to rise in the rankings, gain more authority in the area, and get more traffic from searches. As you continue your efforts, for you can never really rest on your laurels unless you want stickers in your backside, you will continue to add a few blogs, a few blogs will fade away, and you will still be the hub of your community. ComLuv is critical to this effort as it allows you to leave targeted links without seeming spammy. So, get commenting!

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  1. Twitter:
    Yes, and you can repeat the process until you get a solid core of about 20 blogs that are good, then work on them to form a community.
    stephaniesuesansmith recently posted..ComLuv-FamousBloggers Contest Benefits Garden BloggersMy Profile

  2. Hi Stephanie,
    hopefully I found this one, this is very usseful thanks for sharing :)

    did you have another advice about how to post blog comment without being deleted.. I’m only new for this industry.. hope you can help me thanks a lot ^^,

  3. Must say this is one of the most on-topic post about building a community with your blog comments I’ve ever read. Thanks for this information. I’ll definitely be putting this info into use.
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  4. Twitter:
    but if we train spammers to emulate humans, we will have to train the spam catchers to catch something else. it just never ends, does it?

    It is harder to do this in a disciplined way but the dividends in the end are greater. You just have to put in more work up front.
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  5. I tend to come back to the blogs I’ve commented on, simply because I really enjoy reading what they have to say. I’m always looking for more too, that way I expand my circle and am not constantly linking to the same folks on my website.

    Using a RSS feed aggregator is extremely helpful here, since I can do all my blog visits (even comment) from NetNewsWire for Mac.

    Currently this is my newest website; I forgot how much I missed starting a new site (crazy I know.)

    I’ll definitely have to check out your niche website, since I do a lot of vegetable gardening here at my home. :)


    • Twitter:
      I can’t imagine enjoying putting together new websites, but then most people do not see the enjoyment in taking portraits of plants.

      Using the RSS aggregater has really helped me. I can unsubscribe from blogs that do not make the cut, hit a portion of the remaining blogs each day, and continue to build my network.
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  6. Thanks for the awesome tips. I’ll surely look forward to adopt these Tips.


    • Twitter:
      Thanks for stopping by. Hope the tips help.
      Stephanie Suesan Smith recently posted..Gardening in HungaryMy Profile

      • What a helpful post. I’m new to blogging and learning heaps. I have been visiting other blogs and commenting and get really excited when others comment on my site too. But now I see a very organised way to go about it that I will begin to emulate.
        I have very small niche in all things lavender but my other passion is organic vegetables so once I have mastered this blogging biz then I will set up my second blog.
        Thanks again for such generous information


        • Twitter:
          If your niche is made of things made with lavender, it is larger than you think. All those craft people that make their own soap, that dried stuff that smells good and which I cannot smell, cooks that use spices and flowers, and other gardening people that like to grow a challenging plant are in that niche. So it may be bigger than you think.

          Organizing things makes it easier. I am using an excel spreadsheet to keep track of the blogs I visit and comment on as well as using the Google reader to read them. It helps. Good luck with your blog.
          stephaniesuesansmith recently posted..Gardening in HungaryMy Profile

    • thanks for the tip suesan

  7. I like your method of finding blogs to comment on in your niche using Google. I personally prefer CommentLuv blogs! I really do; it’s almost become a thing where, if the blog doesn’t have CommentLuv, sometimes I just won’t comment (sounds bad, but it’s just personal preference).
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  8. Twitter:
    I have also started a spreadsheet to record when I leave a comment, so I do not forget. That makes blog hopping a lot easier because you do not have to wonder if you are commenting too many days in a row on the same blog.


  9. Twitter:
    Good post Stephanie. I like the Commentluv plugin but lately have been having trouble with it. I ofter get the “Response cached” error message when posting. I have had it installed on my site for a couple of years and it works fine there.
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  10. Good idea, from now on, ill visit comluv and visit at least 10 sites a day, read the articles and leave good non spammy comments =)

  11. Don’t you wish that people would stop spamming? Many blogs have nofollow rules but I guess it won’t stop them.

    I just got excited to get comments on my blog but later discovered there were spam …

  12. When you’re leaving a CommentLuv comment, do you usually choose which post you’re promoting based on the content of the article or do you always let it fall to the most recent post?

  13. Hallo Stephanie,

    I’ve just been visiting your vegetable garden site and left a message for you there

    Best wishes
    Will
    P.S: Moondancer, another of your site visitors, is already supporting what is happening at Noaspa – and I’m really hoping you’ll join us there too ( together with a few other familiar “Famous Bloggers”)
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  14. Actually, I use the ComLuv blog network search to find blogs in my niche (food blogging). That way I know they’re guaranteed to have CommentLuf already installed!
    Nate recently posted..Roast Chicken Ramadan RecipeMy Profile


  15. Twitter:
    Hi Stephanie,
    I wish that I could find your post earlier, however is not too late. :-)
    This is great, I never thought of using Google ready to collect interesting blog feed to form a community before. Thank you to give me great ideas, will apply your 5 methods for my blog.
    Rose recently posted..Art Paintings vs Art of LivingMy Profile

  16. One of the most helpful articles on commenting that I’ve read. I like your idea of getting a core group of 50 blogs in your reader and working from there. I’m wa-ay to flighty about it – here, there and everywhere – whatever grabs my attention.

    I’m a little confused because I signed up one blog and it has CommentLuv on it but it shows for one of my other blogs that doesn’t have it! Suspect I need to look at my registration at CommentLuv again – must have done something wrong.

    Anyway, very helpful.


  17. Twitter:
    This is great, practical advice on how to build a community by participating on other people’s blogs. I wonder how long it takes for links to build — does this approach work for developing a network of inbound links to sites so that my blog will rise in rankings?


  18. Twitter:
    I admit that comluv has changed the way I seek discussion. Whereas before my writing and blog commenting / community discussion would be almost separated, I now seek conversations on the topic I have been writing about. This means you find new blogs to speak on, and do not keep talking about the same thing, and the comluv link is most relevant too.

  19. Hello Stephanie,

    I followed your instruction , but still new so guess I have to give it some more time and effort , but Loved the idea of Gravatar , thx.
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  20. I’m going to give your ideas a try. I leave comments on lots of wine blogs. While I do return to some of the same blogs again, it is rather random. Focusing on the 20 Best Blogs does seem to be a better strategy. Thanks!
    cheers2wine recently posted..Central Valley WineriesMy Profile

  21. Leave targeted links WITHOUT being spammy! If I had a adsense click for each nonsense comment, I would be loaded I tell ya!
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  22. Hi Stephanie, good points, one question, I already frequent several dog blogs regularly and a few don’t have comment luv. Does it cost them money to set-up? I ask, as I email several blog owners regularly back and forth who probably don’t even know about it but I am in the trusted position to make suggestions which obviously I do not wish to abuse by asking them to spend money. Reply would be very much appreciated, thanks for sharing.
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  23. Stephanie, Cool deal… a blogger that not only understands CommentLuv but actually reads and replies to her commenters! You’re top notch! I like how you phrased “drive-by” commenting, it sounds so sinister!
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  24. I have suggested comment luv to several bloggers with sites, who say they don’t want to invest the time in monitoring comments/replying? My overall experience with it has been good.
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  25. A great post. I learned a lot from the post itself but the comments were also of a great help. I really found the reply to Brent helpful. I used to use a gravator on my comments and then got away from it when I changed email address’. I have updated my account to show my gravator.
    Thanks a lot.
    Bob Jones
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  26. Great points, Stephanie! I agree that you should become a regular contributor to a blog before trying to promote your own company.
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  27. Twitter:
    Thanks for the informative post. I am a relatively new blogger and I found your tips on searching for posts in Google interesting – I didn’t realise you could filter for blogs in the side panel. Also a good ideas to gather posts in Google Reader and build a community, I have been flitting around here there and everywhere, and have found that when I want to go back to a post, I can’t find it. Much better idea!
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  28. I am glad I found this post. Truly invaluable to a new blogger like myself. Thanks for sharing.
    I have implemented CommentLuv on my blogger blog as well, and I love it. I wish it was mandatory for every blogger out there… :P
    Cooper recently posted..Review: J.R. Watkins Hand & Cuticle Salve LavenderMy Profile


  29. Twitter:
    Although this article has been up for awhile, I’m still interested in the topic. I’m trying to work on niches on which to leave comments with CommentLuv and link back to a related article. For some reason this blog comes up under “wine.”
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  30. Twitter:
    I understand what you mean by “Drive By” commenting. I was guilty of that myself. Post once and then never visit the site again. Now, I keep a database of the blogs I post on and I only post of blogs with topics that I’m interested in. I only just recently came to the realization that building relationships is important. This actually came to me because of my spiritual relationship with God, and with the people in the church that I just started attending a few years ago. Its all about relationships.
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  31. Twitter:
    Hello Stephanie. This post has definitely helped me learn a lot. I notice that sometimes with the drive-by approach, the comments do not even make it to the blogs, even though they are completely relevant to the topic and provide a useful insight. I think this practice is not fair
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